Sunday, May 3, 2009

Relationships.

I guarantee that this will be something I talk about a lot on here. Not because I always think about it, because I don't. But I say this because people always seem to talk to me about this particular subject. People tend to be really open to me when it comes to this. Even if I'm not that close to them. It's weird, but I consider it a blessing that people can trust me so easily. Well, here's what I have to say right now from recent conversations...

I get slightly annoyed when people try too hard to be with someone. "Be yourself and let the attraction work on it's own." I've said this a few times this week to different people, and I truly believe it. You know that people try too hard when they do things out of the ordinary (things they normally wouldn't do for/with a person unless they were interested in them) for this other person.

I believe that if it's truly meant to happen, then God will make it happen. If we truly put our focus on Him first and not some guy or girl, we can let Him work with us just as He's working with that other person. When the time is right and perfect, He'll make the two paths cross. We don't need to try so hard to make it happen. We don't have to do anything out of the ordinary. We don't have to make it seem like were into the same type of things or talk the same way or even type (sorry but that's sad to do. Haha) the same way as that other person. If you just be yourself, and that person likes you just the way you are, then that just makes them a little more... worth it.

Don't waste time chasing anyone. Chase God, and He'll bring you exactly what you want at the right time, which is when you're truly ready.

In my case, it'll be known as the perfect girl at the perfect time. Yeah. She'll be worth the wait. ^_^

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