Growing up, did you think that you were good looking, or ugly? I honestly believe that everyone thinks they're a fine looking human-being growing up. I know I did. HA. Yet, our mindset begins to change when we see how others look. Once we get the chance to view other people's faces and body types we begin to make comparisons, which influence the way we think. All of a sudden, we start thinking "Wow, I'm actually ugly compared to everyone else" or maybe even "Deng, that guy is ugly compared to me." Through the negative perspective, you may start looking down upon the way you look. Naturally, you are happy with your looks, but it's when you compare yourself to others and decide for yourself what looks hot or cute and what is ugly, that you come up with your own way to describe yourself. Through the somewhat positive perspective, yet still negative in reality, we can have self-confidence, but at the cost of maybe bringing someone else down.
If we don't compare ourselves to others, we'd be fine looking specimen within our own eyes.
Remember, God made us this way for a reason. In his eyes, we're all beauty. ^_^

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