Hard Candy

I've had "things" with several girls. Not saying that I've given anything up, 'cause I haven't, if you know what I mean. Haha. But I've liked and have been liked. I've had ups and downs with past girls. I'm glad to say though, that it just made me stronger and smarter. I've been tested with potential girls as of late, and I'm lasting. I don't fall so easily, nor do I even really try to "spark" a connection with a girl. I'm happy to say that I've overcome a bad habit of thinking too much about some girl who I might consider a potential girlfriend. I don't want to go through things I shouldn't be going through, especially if I can stop it from the beginning.

Right now, I'm just focused on what God has in store for me, which are the goals He wants me to reach and the blessings of the future.

If there's any kind of girl I'd want right now, it'd be a girl who's hard to get. A girl who doesn't fall for a guy so quickly, no matter how much special attention a guy would give her, or how nice a guy is, or the washed up lines he uses. I want a smart girl who can wait and see where things goes. Because seriously, I'm tired of falling for a girl so fast, as well as girls who fall for me fast.

This is how I want it to work:

1) We become the best of friends.
2) For some reason, we begin to have feelings for each other.

Yup. Easy as one, two, ... and that's it. Hahaha.

I'll be seeing girls as nothing but friends first. Let the attraction come second.